Forget everything you have been told and taught about life up to now. Clean it from your mind. Remove it from your consciousness.
The rules of the game are constantly changing and we are no longer living in the times when the concepts of life we have been taught where created. Once we understood that we have the power to create the chemicals in our brains needed to feel happy, energetic and have success, by ourselves, everything changed. New rules and new techniques emerged. We have been using the techniques for millenniums, but it is not until now that we understand that whatever you call it, evolution, God, luck, destiny, progress… it is all part of the same realization that there is something more we can do to have success then just sit around and wait. We have finally understood that by changing our thinking patterns and actions we can change our lives for the better. And it is not magic, it is a conscious decision that everybody can take. Everybody without exceptions can change their lives for the better by changing the way they think and act. It’s not a theory, it’s a fact.
If we start to really look at ourselves and intentionally change the way we think and act. And if we consciously correct the actions and thoughts that makes us feel bad and depressed, and start to focus on positive things instead like gratitude for the good things we already have in our lives, love and happiness, and gratitude for the hard times we have already overcome that made us stronger. If we do that we will consciously make a change for the better in our lives. And if we learn how to reach for better, positive, thoughts that makes us feel good and calm when our minds are trying to feed us negative and destructive ideas, we can change the way we feel on a daily basis. If we repeat our new way of thinking every day, first thing in the morning when we open our eyes, we will in time see doors open for all the fantastic opportunities that are waiting for us.
When we understand that to achieve something like greatness, wealth or happiness we always have to start with an idea in our own mind, a vision for the future, a goal that we have. When we finally resign to the fact that it is in our own brain we create our future. That it doesn’t happen by itself. That nobody else can create a better life for us. That WE are in control of OUR OWN lives. We are the captains of our own ships! When we understand that, that is when anything becomes possible. That is the day that your life changes. That is the moment when you can start to consciously create visions for your future where you are happy and where you are doing the things that you dream about doing with the people that you love. It all starts with a vision in your mind. The clearer the vision in your mind is, the easier it will be for you to achieve it.
It is when we learn to remove stupid thoughts and patterns from our minds and focus on positive visions for our future that we can change our lives to happier more meaningful lives. When we stop complaining and understand that complaining is a contagious disease that ruins your life. A disease that can only be cured by focusing on the positive things you already have in your life, by gratitude, clear visions of the future and positive actions. That is when we start to move forward instead of backward.
Let go of these people that you know are not for you. They are just holding you down. What are you afraid of? Greatness doesn’t need approval of everybody in the room! If you think you are going to please all your negative friends you have already lost. They will never change. You will! Start to answer every complaint with I am not interested in the negative things you have to say. Surround yourself with positive people that have good visions for the future or great experience in the past, or both! Don’t waste your time no more! What are you doing?!
Don’t complain. Go to the gym! Go out and take a walk. Do something! Something that kick starts the process of positive thinking in your mind. Think of a place and time where you where happy, and hold on to that thought and just let all the negative thoughts dry off like water in the sun. Go somewhere you like to be and focus on the positive visions you have for your future. Fill your brain and life with positive visions and goals.
Imagine yourself as the person you have to be to achieve all your goals. Imagine how you act and talk. What is that person doing?
Then… go and be THAT person!
Hi! I do understand your ideas and believe it’s a successful concept. I think it would also be wise to have short practical points about first thinking about what you really want. Very well written though. A kiss/FF
Hello FFox and thank you for your comment!
I will touch that subject in future blog-posts. Stay tuned 😉
Update:
https://alteacoach.com/blog/2018/08/15/how-to-set-your-visions-and-goals/